“Fat People Stink.” Style as a neutralizer.

“Baby. Fat people stink.” This from my favorite aunt. My mom’s sister. Because that matters. Perhaps the most impactful person in my life.  I wasn’t shocked, appalled, or surprised at this statement.  Not coming from…

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Lovability over “sustainability”… and the myth of “If I can’t wear it with three things in my closet I don’t buy it.”

There is an oft-repeated tale of sustainability and underconsumption that proposes the following:  Before purchasing an item of clothing, make sure you can wear it with three items in your closet.  People have absolved themselves…

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Black Joy is Resistance

Black Joy is a form of resistance.  To resist the burdens of oppression and to live fully beneath the gaze of white supremacy is RESISTANCE.  When I sing, I have to sing “to the heavens”. …

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Shining, Shining, Shining, Shining… All of this Winning!

     I have said this before, especially on Instagram, but I will say it again.  Body positivity, age acceptance, dark-skin love, etc. are movements that exist within the confines of social medias. These movements…

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Votes for Black Women… Just because

Tomorrow marks a first in American History… Kamala Harris will be sworn in as the first Black woman (and Asian) Vice-President of the United States. What a culmination of events following the Black Lives Matter…

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