Accessories and Big Girls: A friendship made in heaven…

The proliferation of actual plus size fashion options are a very recent thing.  And I would even argue that the options that are available aren’t even that great, yet and still, they are options.  But…

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Throw Back Thursday…. MAC’s Film Noir

The 1990s was my shit… I mean really.  The early 1990s to be more specific. (The late 1990s brought the demise of my first “real” relationship, motherhood, an extra-long stint in undergrad that would spill…

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New Year, New Dreams… 2016 Dreamer’s Notebook

Happy New Year!  Time for resolutions, right?  You may remember that I am not a huge fan of resolutions (here).  I’m not opposed to them, I just don’t think they are specific enough to make…

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Be seen…

Every woman wants to be noticed.  Every woman wants to be desired. Every woman wants to be loved. But we have to love ourselves first. Being a big woman my entire life, I decided as…

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Black thought…

The outfits in this post symbolize how I have been feeling as of late.  I have been in “transition” as I truly begin to think about my purpose, and my passion.  As the big 4-0…

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